> you can’t understand your partner’s feelings > an irrational lack of trust in people and in a loving relationship > a critical attitude about yourself that comes from your father > low self-esteem and low sense of self-worth > problems with abandonment (even with your father physically present) > you feel an inability to feel loved or desired, or even to want to give love (because you end up denying it: care and love, since you never received it the way you wanted to) > inside you, you are very defensive and sensitive, but you want to create barriers and defense mechanisms to hide these sensitivity > all you wanted was your father’s love and attention, but he didn’t give > need to change everything in yourself to reach a standard, because naturally you don’t see yourself fulfilling the ideal > this created in the native a tendency to not believe that he is an ideal person to this world > it created an extremely defensive person > the development of a strong and solid ego was prevented from happening due to many criticisms received > it created an idea that you are not enough > you admired your father and wanted him to be proud of your achievements, but he only criticized you. Having said that, let’s look at the characteristics of the aspect : possible Sun/Saturn native characteristics and their effects: but, deep down, they have no control over their emotions and know very little about themselves. this is because men who are emotionally insecure adopt this stereotype as their persona so that they appear to be fulfilling the requirements expected of a man by the collective conscious (society). Now, for men in particular, they can adopt a defense mechanism quite common in our society: to adapt to the stereotype of a macho, a manly and strong man. consequently, they have to deal with some effects that i’ll describe below.īut before describing the possible characteristics, i would like to mention that not every native will behave in the same way, and by this i mean that even if they are like that inside themselves, those who have less awareness and self-knowledge will adopt a defense mechanism to be closed and appear exactly the opposite way on the outside. People develop negative father complexes because they didn’t get their father’s approval. With regard to the father complex, the type of father you had / has says a lot about your paternal complex, saying whether it will be a negative or positive. the difference is whether your complex on a given subject is positive or negative. let’s say they are nucleus of psychic energy that contain memories, emotions and ideas about things. The complexes are built based on the experiences that we have in our life. This negative complex is related to the father archetype. not every position or aspect will manifest in the same way in all people, not to mention that here i focus on the negative point of the aspect, but it still has its positive points, even if that is not its primary nature. Obs.: before anything, like everything in astrology, not all positions are manifested in the way that astrologers describe because everything depends on the native’s will, whether in an active or indirect way. Archetypes, negative complexes and astrological positions (astrology & psychology)
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